You know, one of the biggest mistakes I see people making in their businesses… is the MASSIVELY wrapped up emotion they have with whatever they are doing. And frankly, I don’t think many people really understand just how much this is NEGATIVELY impacting their business… and impacting the amount of money they can earn in life.
So I decided to shoot this video for you today, and TEACH YOU how to ‘Defuse’ the emotion from business, and literally just become the type of person that can create far more results, with less stress or anxiety, and come across as more professional to their network in the mean time.
Here’s the video…
Leave me your comment when you’re done watching, cause I’d love to know what you think! And we’ll speak more soon…
Yours In Mastery,
Jonathan Budd
Making decisions outside of the emotion invoked by the situation. For what it is worth, I think our Higher Power, whom I call God, makes decisions this way. Good job as usual, Jonathan
Hey Jonathan - Right on as usual… Another way to ‘diffuse’ is never to HAVE the emotion in the first place. You spoke really only about “BAD” emotions. But - if we are so motivated by “GOOD” emotions - “Wow, what a fantastic day, what a fantastic opportunity I have, what a fantastic person I am talking to (underneath it all, maybe!) then this can completely crowd out the “BAD” emotions and they won’t even arise! Not always easy, but betwent he two techniques there’s really no excuse for getting upset. What do you think? dp
Do you know that the teachings you impart have Biblical origins? Today for example follows the Book of Easter. Queen Easter was a Jewish woman called by God to stop the persecution her people were about to experience. Only Easter was afraid she would be killed if she went before the King. Instead she prayed and fasted, and found trust in God so when she came before the King she was filled with a profound peace. Philippians 4:6: Do not fret or have any anxiety about anything, but in every circumstance and in everything, by prayer and petition (definite requests), with thanksgiving, continue to make your wants known to God. And God’s peace [shall be yours…] (AmP.) Notice, Esther didn’t just run around talking to people about the
trouble she was facing. Her conversation wasn’t just horizontal. It was vertical. She talked to God (and asked others to talk to Him too). She lifted the situation to Him and asked Him for help. When she did, something amazing happened. A heavenly kind of peace came upon her. It was the kind of peace 1 Peter 3:4 refers to as “…the
inward adorning and beauty of the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible and unfading charm of a gentle and peaceful spirit, which [is not anxious or wrought up, but] is very precious in the sight of God” (AmP.)
That peace had such a powerful effect on the king that when Esther put on her royal robes and walked into his court, he not only held out to her the golden scepter; he said, “What will you have, Queen Esther? What is
your request? It shall be given you, even to half of the kingdom” (5:4 AmP.) Peace put Esther in charge of the situation! Instead of groveling, she found herself standing in a position of rulership with the king offering to give her half the country. Such a thing was unheard of! In that culture, women were treated as little more than slaves. That was nothing less than supernatural. And it didn’t happen because Esther was somebody special. It happened because she followed God’s instructions. Instead of worrying, she prayed and brought the peace of God on the scene. And that peace is a powerful force!
Hey Jon, You’ve done it again, my whole world is changing right in front of my eyes. In the last month I could have easily used this technique 6 or more times to quickly defuse a potentially devastating situation. Although nothing devastating occurred,the time lost and emotional”baggage”that incurred in each separate situation, could have been nipped in the “Budd”
When the Mentor speaks the student will appear. To me,that one, nine min. video is potentially worth more than all my assets…combined. Fo-Real
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Dear Jonathan,
I truly enjjoy your teachings. I would love to meet you in person. I am sure it would be an experience of a lifetime.
Love, Jamie
Jonathan excellent post. I have been extremely guilty of this and this character flaw, althought human, is disasterous in business and personal matters. I am taking action in fixing this.
thanks
Rohit
Right to that by brutha!
The past is the past…emotion is now…and WE have full control over our emotions!
Get off your buttocks if you’re reading this and make your day RIGHT NOW!
Zack
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Excellent message Jonathan, but the only thing I wonder about, is “excitement” not also an emotion ?
A good emotions should be an advantage, should it not? ….. I do hope it is, because I am excited about the The Pay-Per-Click Mentoring classes that are starting to night at 5.00PM PDT.
Jim
Hi Jonathan,
As always you are right on.
I do have to add one thing form my own experience. Good emotion is not always good either. It can stand in the way just as much the bad might.
If you know you have a product that can help some one who is in need and you do any thing with in your power to explain it to you friend, but he/she find any and every excuse in the book why they can’t do it. At the end you are exhausted, disappointed and maybe even a little heart broken that they did not allow you to help. You had such good intentions. Why couldn’t they see what you do?!
I learned very quickly not to get personally invested no matter how well I know the person and how badly I would like to help them. It has to be the right place and th right time in there lives.
I had to feel in on my own skin, before I learned that this is true.
The people who read this might have to come to this realization on there own, I hope that when they do, they will remember the following: One, they are not alone.
Two this is life!
Gilli
Leave it behind and go to the next person on your list.
You are right. You can not get emotionally involved no matter how much you want to help. People are ready to see when they are ready. It certainly helps to realize that.
Maggie
This video is very insightful. No matter how hard we try not be emotional we are human and we slip. Your questions are a great way to get back . It is very complimentary with E Tolle’s book that you recommended about being in the “now”.
Thank you.
Maggie